Yoga
Practice: A Gift for Aging
by Lou Hoyt
A while
back I attended a week long womens yoga workshop taught by Patricia
Walden. I have reflected on the age of the group and the high quality
and standards of our teacher and her students as they practiced
their yoga. Of the 40 students, all but two ranged in ages from
early forties to seventy. The maturity and experience of the group
could be felt and observed in shared conversations at meals, walks,
and free time. Reminded to practice right speech by Patricia
in our opening gathering, the group shared more personally and from
the heart. This kind of deliberateness comes from choice and maturity
from experience.
Age was a topic on the mat and off, and was often accompanied
with laughter and sometimes tears. Aging is a process that reminds us
that everything changes. Life changes like the seasons, the body changes,
family and work come and go and people we love move on and die. Buddhism
teaches that it is our resistance to change that causes us to suffer.
It is human to want to hold on to those things that make us feel good
and secure.
Aging and maturing is the human experience of creation, living, growing
and evolving and then passing on into non-physical to be born again.
The practice of yoga so keenly and intimately keeps us in touch with
this process of change. Yoga connects us to feeling the body and the
changes in the body. We can observe our thoughts and mental states and
how they play out in our lives. This path of practicing yoga to
know a deeper level of our self is called Svadhyaya, self-study.
It is in this process of going deeper in our poses, in our breathing
practices and in our relaxation that we connect to a feeling of well-being.
It confirms an intrinsic knowing of being OK, of being one with self
and other. This difficult to define experience takes us beyond having
a body, or issues, or age or paralyzing emotions. In that moment, in
the deep practice of Savasana, or the well known Trikonasana, the mind
has become clear and focused and for a few moments dropped all the fears
of change in our present moment. Our practice becomes a time out
from our over stimulated lives and a time to recharge with clarity and
focus. With maturity comes experiences and from experience wisdom evolves.
The Sutras define prajna as wisdom, inner knowing, and inner knowledge.
Living this path of yoga, the gift of age is prajna. The more we live
and learn from our living, the more we can use our experiences
and self knowing to guide us. If a goal of yoga is to eliminate suffering,
then it is in our maturing wisdom we have the freedom to choose what
takes us towards joy and what binds us, what keeps our hearts open and
what closes it down. Then mature choices really begin!